I can never…ever…give up.

My friend, and Team Beachbody Coach, Noelle shared this video today on Facebook: (The video is almost 5 minutes long, but I promise it’s worth every second, plus the rest of my blog will mean so much more to you after you watch it.)

I cried as I watched Arthur. I’ve been there. I’ve been told I’d “never walk normal or run again”. I fractured my pelvis and spine, over twenty years ago, in The Car Accident where I lost my daughter, Shea Marie.

I remember trying so hard year after year, to walk/run without pain. Hell, there were times when I didn’t even care about the pain. I just wanted to run. I spent years on and off a walker, crutches, and a cane. My injuries held me back from so many things…

I did it though. I ran again and again. You might think, “YAY! You did it!” and that would be a great end to the story, right? But it’s not the end of my story.

I’m back there again. I’m back at the place where “they” say I probably won’t be able to run again. I’ve read article, after article about my ankle fusion and one thing seems to be most consistent; I shouldn’t be able to run again. Light jogs? Maybe, if I’m really lucky, but no running.

No Ragnar Relay.

No 10K.

No 1/2 Marathon.

No Marathon.

BUT I WANT TO RUN AGAIN¹ and my doctor told me that it’s “not out of the question”. With enough desire, hard work, dedication, commitment, and support, I *might* be able to run again.

I have a chance.

And I’m going to need your help. I need support. If you’re my Facebook friend, I need you to ‘put up with’ statuses about weight loss, Shakeology, and *crossing my fingers* workouts.

I have a lot of weight to lose if I’m going to run again. I can’t run on my ankle weighing almost 200 pounds. I’ll be using Shakeology and modified workouts from Team Beachbody.

I started this journey of, possibly, running again with the Beachbody Ultimate Reset. I have about 2.5 days to go. I’ve lost 10 pounds in the, almost, three weeks. I’ll let you know where I end up sometime on Thursday.

Do you REALLY want to help me stay accountable and motivate me to keep pushing, even when I just want a damn, giant, bar burger, with a ton of fries²? Join me on a Challenge.

I’ll be posting about an upcoming one on Facebook and I dare you to train harder than I do…

~The MFP

¹I know that for some of you, running just isn’t your thing. What is your thing? Mountain biking? Playing with your kids at the park? Wearing a bikini again? Entering a fitness/body competition? YOU can do it. I believe in you.

²Not that I can’t ever have a damn, giant, bar burger, with a ton of fries, but I have to keep this in perspective. I can’t be going out to eat and gorging on rich foods all the time!

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What you might have missed because you were watching the Super Bowl and blowing your New Year’s Resolutions:

My computer hasn’t been working very well, so there hasn’t been much for posting, BUT I’ve had some fantastic Co-Hosts and a great post on Blogger Fashion Friday!

Check out posts from author Michelle Lebow, author E.L. Farris, BFF Malisa McCloud, and Kelly from DeBie Hive!

AND I’ve started the Fan of the Week back up again! Malisa McCloud happened to be my BFF this week and she’ll be getting a little surprise in the mail! Would YOU like a little something from The MFP? Make sure you like, share, comment on my Facebook page for your chance!

I’ve got all sorts of things coming up this week that I’m sure you just can’t wait for! I’ve got openings for Co-Hosts, and Fashion Blogger Friday – so if you’ve got something to say, send me an email: princess@themfp.com

~The MFP

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Blogger Fashion Friday: With Kelly @DeBieHive

This week on Blogger Fashion Friday is Kelly from DeBie Hive. Kelly is a writer, mom, and super hero…not always in that order. Kelly’s been featured many times on BlogHer, and you can find her guest blogging all over internet: recently over at The Mommy Ref talking about Gender Bending. Kelly’s got a fashion trend I’m sure you’ll be wanting your man to be wearing when he takes you out on a Friday night…swooooon.

~The MFP

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Every season, there is some new bizarre fashion trend. It seems like as time marches on, though, the trends get crazier and crazier. Maybe it’s because there are only so many alterations one can make to clothing, shoes or hair. Maybe it’s because most of the subtle trends aren’t even trends anymore, but have worked themselves into the fashion culture of our country. Maybe it’s because we, as a society, require more and more oddity, more shock value, more strange.

Regardless of what the reason is, I will never understand why saggy crotch pants keep coming back.

McHammer Pants

Back when Hammer brought the harem style pant to the forefront, it seemed to make sense.

The guy danced constantly, and needed a pant that allowed him to move freely. I get it.

I don’t know that all that blousing was necessary, but he seemed to make it work at the time. Also, it is HARD to pull off gold satiny fabric as a man, but I think we can all agree that he nailed it.

It was cool when it was just him. When everyday people starting believing that they needed to also enlarge the crotch region of their unnecessarily baggy pants, though, it got weird.

crotchy people

no. just no.

I thought we had put that behind us, America.

Not so lucky.

A few years ago, women’s fashion magazines started to run images of the harem pants again. Fortunately, it didn’t catch on like they were hoping (or fearing, depending on who you ask).

Again, I thought we were good.

It’s not the women wearing them this time around, though, and the saggy crotches have been built into the worst male fashion trend of all time, the skinny jean.

Skinny jeans with saggy crotches.

dude with black hammer pants

They look like leggings with diapers.

This doesn’t make Chris Brown look more ridiculous, at all. Nope.

Can someone please explain this to me?

You aren’t going to fool anyone into thinking that your junk needs that much space. Even if you’re dancing a lot, that is just unnecessary – especially since you danced just fine in regular crotched skinny jeans not that long ago.

 

Bieber and Hammer Pants

No Biebs.

No.

No.

No.

Make it stop.

 

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You can find more from Kelly on Facebook and Twitter! Also, head over to this week’s Mother Freakin’ Co-Host post from BFF, Malisa! There’s a FLASH GIVE AWAY going on that ends soon! – super easy!

Attention Bloggers! Do YOU have a fashion trend that’s really a fashion faux pas? Send me your post and you might be featured on a Blogger Fashion Friday! princess@themfp.com

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This week’s Mother Freakin’ Co-Host: Malisa McCloud (Plus, a FLASH GIVE-AWAY!)

Have you ever met someone and knew right away that you would have an amazing relationship with them? What if you haven’t ever actually ‘met’ that person yet? Does it still count? Can they still be one of your BFFs? Well, I think so.

I met Malisa through our BFF, Katie. Malisa is awesome. She’s someone who gets excited, and she’s a ‘go-getter’. She’s bright, kind, and yet super down to earth. Malisa is a wife and mother of three. One of her greatest joys in life is her family.

I think you’re really going to enjoy getting to know Malisa a little better after her Co-Hosting post. She reminded me that no matter how ‘put-together’ someone is, they are all still overcoming their own battles.

~The MFP

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My name is Malisa and I met The MFP through my friend of many many years, Katie. The MFP inspires me. She inspires me to put my thoughts out there and not be afraid of what others think.  It is my life, right? I will do as I please!  I have goals in life, and I am going to do anything I can to achieve them. So I am going to take a few minutes to bore you all with a bit about me and my life.

I am currently a fairly new Mary Kay Beauty Consultant who was introduced to the company because I had won a free facial/makeover for myself and as many friends as I wanted through the company in which I was buying my wedding gown. Besides my Mary Kay business, I also work full-time as an office manager at a manufacturing company (I drive one hour each way to get there).

Now here is my story. I was told I could never have children so I was very blessed when I met my husband and his two children that we have full time. They filled the gap in my heart of knowing I would never have my own biological child.

I struggled for a while with the wonder of “Why me?  Why can I not have my own? What did I do wrong?” Well, a little less than 2 years ago, God decided it was time for me to go through the joys of child bearing and I was ecstatic! How many women say they are ecstatic about growing pains, morning sickness, and so forth? I was!!!

January 30th 2012 I was blessed with my miracle baby (Landen)! Shorty after that, I suffered from postpartum depression and I didn’t understand how I could be depressed after experiencing the most amazing thing in the world, having my own child. I started seeing a therapist, whom I still see today.  Landen is going to be 1 on the day you will be reading this! Who would have thought that the reason I was always so on edge was because I suffered from anxiety for years, which did not by any means help my postpartum depression!

I took 6 weeks off work and stayed home with my bundle of joy. Those 6 weeks sure went fast and I enjoyed every minute of it. I contemplated staying home, I dreaded going back to work. Not because of my job (I have a really good job), but because I did not want to leave my baby. My boss offered me a great package that at that time everyone said, “You are crazy if you do not go back to work”. So here I am, back at work, dreading each day I walk out of my house and leave my little man for 10 hours.

My old hours required me to leave my house at 6:30am and get home at 6:00pm. With my new hours, I leave at 7:30am and get back home about 5:30 pm. Landen goes to bed between 7-7:30pm. This still only gives me an hour and a half a day with him and once in awhile, the depression hits. I think to myself “He’s going to call the babysitter mom” and “He won’t know who I am.”  It breaks my heart when I am not the first one to see one of his “firsts”. I hate that I get about an hour and a half a day with him, it is simply not enough time. I decided enough was enough. I needed to be home more with the kids so I contacted the lady who did my Mary Kay party.

Having Landen is what truly inspired me to start Mary Kay. I can be having the worst day ever, but when I walk in that door and he comes around the corner, wanting up and giving me the biggest hug ever, he makes me forget about whatever it was that made my day bad. I do not want any bad days, I want more time with the kids. I do not want to miss the older boys’ games. I want to be a part of everything in my family.

Mary Kay has also helped with my anxiety in many ways. It has given me more confidence so I feel better about myself and it has given my family more financial freedom so we do not have to worry about which bill to hold off on for a week, etc.

With Mary Kay, dreams can become a reality. Yes I know, you are all probably sitting there thinking “blah blah blah”. I was one of you thinking “blah blah blah”, before I gave it a chance.

But, Mary Kay is making my dreams come true.With Mary Kay, I create my own hours, work when I want, and determine how much I want to make. I work my business around my family activities, not my family activities around my job and the recognition is amazing! I’ve earned a ton of jewelry and other items. Before too long, Mary Kay will be buying me a car! How many companies buy you a new car every two years and give you diamonds?

Mary Kay has made my dream a reality. My dream of mary-kay-brush-collection-launch-category-grid-col-189610wanting more time at home was never going to happen. Now after starting with Mary Kay, I can honestly say that I see the opportunity of going part time at my current job, and hopefully soon be able to proudly say “I’m a Stay at Home Mom” with her own Mary Kay Business!

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Make sure to go check Malisa out. You can find her on Facebook (where she posts lots of great make-up/skin care tips) or you can email her at mmcloud30@gmail.com If you would like to place an order, you can go to www.marykay.com/mmcloud. She ships anywhere in the US. There is a 5.5% tax and small shipping fee added after the order is received.

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Last year I made you a handmade Valentine. This year? I’m giving out *real* gifts!

Remember the Valentine I made you last year? Well, I’m going to out do myself this year. I’m going to give you ACTUAL PRESENTS! Here’s how it works:

I’m helping BFF, Katie kick start her Mary Kay business by hosting an on-line party¹! Then, on Valentine’s Day, I’m going to do a sweepstakes for the hostess gifts! That’s right! I’M GIVING YOU THE HOSTESS GIFTS!

Here are some of my favorite products:

Lip Gloss - If I was ever stranded on a deserted island, Screen Shot 2012-12-09 at 1.52.33 PMthe one cosmetic I would HAVE to have would be lip-stuff.I <3 the Nourishine Plus Lip Gloss! I currently have “Berry Tart” and “Inspiring”, but knowing me….I’ll be adding a few more to my collection! (I think “Pink Luster” should be my next purchase!)

Mascara – Srsly…everyone needs mascara. I bet most of you have mascara that’s 4 months or more old. IF YOU DO, THROW IT OUT! (We’re talking about your eyes, people! Don’t mess with them!)

Foundation – I love love love the Mary Kay mineral foundation. Not sure what your color would be? Ask Katie! She can help you figure it out!

Bronzing Powder – Well, it’s winter. Most of us have been without sunshine. A little bronzer can lift our spirits and get us thinking of warmer weather. I can almost feel the sunshine already. Ah…bask in the glow.

There’s a bunch of more awesome things on Katie’s website, so go check it out: KATIE’S MARY KAY SITE

So, Happy early Valentine’s Day to you! I can’t wait to see which one of you WINS!

~The MFP

OMG! I forgot to mention that EVERYONE who orders is going to get a special little something from ME!

¹Truth be told, I really just wanted to do a Lip-Gloss-A-Thon, because I LOVE THEIR LIP GLOSS SO MUCH! But you all might not be into lip gloss as much as I am, so fine…feel free to order other things. But how cool would it be if WE ALL ORDERED LIP GLOSSES?!?!?

And invite your friends to the party: The Mother Freakin’ Princess Valentine’s Party!

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